Alan and I have been on a journey together. We are walking the same path, but we walk it quite differently. Our goals are even different, and yet the journey so much the same. At the beginning of the year, Alan decided he was going to eat healthier. After much kicking and screaming:-), I jumped on board a couple of months later. We have been exercising five days a week, we are always looking for ways to get "more cardio", and we eat very differently than we used to. Fast food has basically been cut from our diet and although we do splurge sometimes, we really think through our choices.
We have both been loosing weight steadily. Alan's whole goal in this is to be healthier. He tells me over and over again that it is NOT about the weight. It is about his overall health. I, on the other hand, announce every half a pound shed with my hands up in the air and my knee bowed like I have just won some great prize! Next, I sent out texts to my girls and my sister. Alan rarely ever mentions his weight even when I am bugging him to tell me!! He really believes his philosophy and I really believe mine. My goal is to weigh a certain amount and I love to see my clothes get looser and try on things that were tight before. Alan tries to tell me that his clothes always fit that way and there is no difference.
The best thing about our journey is that we have been doing this together. We are supportive of each other and feel like we are on the same team. We are both excited when I buy a new healthy cookbook and give a new recipe a try.
It sure is nice to have him, even if we are just a little bit different.